Most of us have been there, lying in bed, having an incredible fantasy and only wishing that somebody would walk through the door who has the same thoughts. The most frustrating part is that you know that there is somebody somewhere in the world who is ready for that exact same thing that you are wishing for. There is also the case that you have a specific wish that you do not even dare to tell your friends. Because they might judge you, but also because you don’t want to live this fantasy with your friends. So the question becomes, how do you find somebody with the same fantasies?
People You Know
If you’re in luck you have friends or colleagues that are open-minded and speak freely about their thoughts and desires. However, in most cases your sexual fantasies are not a topic of conversation with your neighbor or your boss. And even if you have a friend that you confide in, mixing friendship with erotic fantasies can be really risky. If you have a flirty relationship with somebody, you can always say it like it was a joke. So something like “Yeah sure, being tied up is something that I always wanted (laughter laughter)”, so you can always say that you were just kidding, and then just see if it resonates with the other person.
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